Okay, so, I’ve been trying to catch the eye of this Virgo guy, and let me tell you, it’s been a journey. I knew going in that Virgos are known for being, well, a bit picky, but I was up for the challenge. It’s not easy, but I didn’t give up my hope.
First things first, I made sure I always looked decent when I knew I’d be around him. I’m not talking about going full glam, but just making sure my hair wasn’t a total mess and I had on a clean shirt. I also tried to have that fresh and clean feeling. I noticed he seemed to appreciate that, based on the fact that he started to sit closer to me. Virgos dig someone who takes care of themselves, I guess.
Then, I focused on being reliable. If I said I’d do something, I did it. If we had plans, I was on time. Always. I could tell this was a big deal for him, because he started opening up more once he saw he could count on me. I planned some outings that I thought he’d like, not just what I wanted to do, nothing too crazy, just things I knew he was interested in, and that seemed to score me some major points.
I also made an effort to show him I’m not just an airhead. I listened when he talked about his work and hobbies, and I asked questions. Not in an annoying way, but just to show I was genuinely interested. I think he liked that I could keep up with him in conversations.
But it wasn’t just about impressing him. I also opened up a bit myself. I shared some of my own vulnerabilities, nothing too heavy, just enough to let him see that I’m a real person with my own stuff going on. It felt a bit risky, but I think it helped him see me as more than just someone trying to get his attention.
The biggest thing, though, was respecting his boundaries. Virgos need their space, and I made sure not to smother him. I gave him plenty of time to himself and didn’t pressure him to hang out all the time. I let him pursue his own interests, showing him that I supported his goals. This was crucial. It’s like I showed him I respected him as an individual, not just as someone I was interested in. I really respected their high standards.
- Showed reliability and punctuality
- Planned thoughtful outings based on his interests
- Listened actively and engaged in meaningful conversations
- Shared some personal vulnerabilities to build trust
- Respected his boundaries and gave him space
Here’s a little summary:
It’s been a slow process, but it’s definitely been worth it. He’s started to show more interest, and we’ve been spending more time together. It feels like a genuine connection, not just something superficial. It is like solving a puzzle with precision and care. I’m starting to see him genuinely care about me. I think I’m finally getting through to him, and it feels pretty darn good.
So, yeah, attracting a Virgo man isn’t a walk in the park, but if you’re willing to put in the effort and be yourself, it can definitely happen. Just remember to be patient, understanding, and genuine. And maybe brush your hair.
