Alright, so, I’ve been through some stuff, and I wanna share my experience about figuring out when an Aries man is done with you. It’s not easy, but I think it’s something that needs to be talked about. So buckle up, and let’s get into it.
He’s Hot and Cold, Then Just Cold
At first, it was a bit of a rollercoaster. You know how Aries men can be all fiery and passionate? Well, he was like that. One minute he was all over me, the next, not so much. I read somewhere that this isn’t always a bad sign in the beginning. I guess they take their time to open up or something. But, and this is a big but, this hot and cold thing didn’t stop. It just got colder and colder.
- He started pulling away. Not like a gradual drift, but more like he hit a wall and just stopped. No more random texts, no more surprise visits. Nothing.
Mr. Critical, All of a Sudden
Then came the nitpicking. Seriously, it was like I couldn’t do anything right. Aries men are known for being blunt, which I can handle, but this was different. It wasn’t just honesty; it was like he was looking for faults. And let me tell you, he found them. Everything I did, big or small, was suddenly under a microscope. And yeah, it hurt.
- Everything became a problem. My laugh, the way I chewed, my choice of movies – you name it, he had a critique for it.
Distance Like the Grand Canyon
The distance between us grew. And I’m not just talking about physical distance. It was like he was there, but not really, you know? This is one of the big signs I realized later. An Aries man showing disinterest is pretty obvious once you know what to look for. He stopped sharing things, stopped asking about my day. It was like I was living with a ghost.
- Our conversations became one-word answers. Trying to talk to him was like pulling teeth.
Patience? What’s That?
Now, I know Aries folks aren’t known for their patience. But this was next-level impatient. He lost his cool over the smallest things. Waiting for anything, even a couple of minutes, was too much. It was clear that his tolerance level for, well, anything related to me was at zero.
- Every little thing turned into an argument. And not even a proper argument, just him snapping and me trying to figure out what went wrong.
Belittling Me Became His Hobby
This was the worst part. He started putting me down, and not in a joking way. It was like he got a kick out of making me feel small. I read that when an Aries man starts belittling you, it’s a huge red flag. And it’s true. It felt like he was trying to break me down, and honestly, it worked for a while.
- My achievements didn’t matter anymore. Any success I had was either ignored or downplayed.
So, yeah, that’s my story of figuring out when an Aries man is done with you. It was a rough ride, but I learned a lot. I guess the main takeaway is to trust your gut. If something feels off, it probably is. And remember, you deserve to be with someone who appreciates you, flaws and all.
