Okay, so the other day I was chatting with my friend, and she was going through a tough breakup. Her ex is an Aquarius, and it got me thinking about the whole “when an Aquarius woman is done with you” thing. I’ve dated a few Aquarius women in my time, so I thought I’d share my experiences and what I’ve noticed.
First off, I started noticing a real distance. It wasn’t like a sudden blow-up, more like a slow drift. We used to talk for hours, you know, about everything and nothing. But then, the conversations got shorter, less frequent. I found myself initiating most of our chats, and her replies became, like, super brief, almost one-word answers.
The Detachment Phase
- Less Communication: The deep talks faded away. It felt like pulling teeth to get her to engage in a meaningful conversation.
- Emotional Distance: She stopped sharing her feelings as much. It was like a wall went up. I tried to ask what was wrong, but I usually got a “nothing” or “I’m fine.”
- Less Physical Affection: The hugs, the casual touches… they started to disappear. It felt like she was deliberately avoiding physical contact.
- Increased Indifference: She became indifferent to my feeling, and she showed less and less care to me.
Then, I noticed she stopped making an effort to spend time together. We used to have regular date nights, but those became less and less frequent. She always had an excuse – work, family, feeling tired. I tried to suggest things, but she usually brushed them off or said she’d “think about it” (which basically meant “no”).
Another big thing I picked up on was her independence. Aquarius women are known for being independent, but this was different. It felt like she was deliberately excluding me from her life. She started making plans without me, going out with friends, pursuing her hobbies… and I wasn’t even an afterthought. She didn’t make me part of her life.
The final straw, in one particular case, was when I realized she had stopped arguing with me. Now, that might sound weird, but we used to have these passionate debates about everything. It wasn’t mean-spirited, just… lively discussions. But then, she just stopped caring enough to even disagree. She’d just shrug or say “whatever you think.” That’s when I knew it was really over.
It’s a tough pill to swallow, realizing someone you care about has checked out. But looking back, I can see the signs were there. It wasn’t one big thing, but a series of small changes that added up to a clear message: she was done.
