Okay, so, I had this thing with an Aries guy, right? It was intense, super passionate, all that fiery stuff you hear about. But then, poof! It was over. And honestly, I wanted him to feel that loss, you know? To really miss what we had. So, I did some digging, rolled up my sleeves, and got to work. Here’s what went down:
Operation: Make Him Regret It
First things first, I stopped chasing him. Like, completely. No more texts, no calls, not even a sneaky like on his Instagram pics. I read somewhere that Aries guys like the chase, so I decided to make myself scarce. It was tough, I’m not gonna lie, but I stayed strong.
Then, I focused on myself. Sounds cliché, I know, but it’s true. I started hitting the gym more, spent more time with my friends, and even picked up a new hobby – salsa dancing, of all things! I was busy, happy, and honestly, glowing. I posted some pics online, not to make him jealous, but because I genuinely felt good about myself. I wanted to do some new things for myself and change my lifestyle. It really worked!
- Gym: Getting in shape not only made me look better but also boosted my confidence.
- Friends: Having a blast with my girls reminded me that I’m a fun, interesting person outside of a relationship.
- Salsa: Learning something new was exciting and gave me something else to focus on.
Next, I made sure to be seen. Not in a desperate, “look at me” kind of way, but just…out there. I went to parties, hung out at popular spots, and generally just lived my life to the fullest. I even ran into him a couple of times, and let me tell you, the look on his face was priceless. I played it cool, though. A quick smile, a friendly hello, and then back to having fun with my friends.
This wasn’t about playing games, it was about genuinely moving on and rediscovering myself. But, did it work? Well, let’s just say he started liking my posts again. Then came the “hey stranger” text. And then…well, that’s a story for another time. But yeah, I think he definitely felt a pang of regret. Mission accomplished, I guess. The key is to really focus on yourself and let them see what they’re missing. Don’t chase, don’t be available, and most importantly, be happy! Trust me, it really works like a charm. It is so easy, and I did it!
Remember that you are valuable and beautiful!
