Okay, so, I went through this rough patch with my Gemini guy. It was a total mess, and I thought it was over for good. But I really wanted to make things work, so I did a bunch of stuff to try and get him back. Let me tell you, it wasn’t easy, but I figured it out, and I want to share what I did, step-by-step.
Phase 1: Giving Him Space
First off, I realized I needed to give him some space. Geminis are super independent, and I was probably smothering him a bit. So, I backed off. I stopped texting him all the time, didn’t call, and just let him breathe. It was hard, but I knew I had to do it.
Phase 2: Working on Myself
While I was giving him space, I also started working on myself. I hit the gym, started eating healthier, and focused on my own hobbies. I even took up painting again, something I hadn’t done in years. Basically, I made sure I was taking care of myself and doing things that made me happy.
Phase 3: Showing Him I’m Fun
Geminis love to have fun, so I made sure to show him I was still the fun-loving girl he fell for. I started posting more on social media about the fun stuff I was doing – going out with friends, trying new restaurants, that kind of thing. I wasn’t doing it just for him, but I knew he’d see it.
Phase 4: Keeping Things Light
When we did start talking again, I kept things light and positive. No heavy conversations about the relationship, just fun, flirty banter. I made him laugh, reminded him of the good times we had, and didn’t pressure him about anything. Also I avoided being clingy and needy to him.
Phase 5: Being a Good Listener
Geminis are big talkers, so I made sure to be a good listener. I let him talk about whatever was on his mind, and I really listened. I asked questions, showed him I was interested in what he had to say, and made him feel heard.
Phase 6: Showing Him I’ve Changed
I knew I had to show him that I had learned from our breakup and that I was willing to change. So, I started doing little things to show him I was more understanding, more patient, and more supportive. I was more to listen to him and show him I was interested in what he had to say, and made him feel heard.
Phase 7: Being Patient
This was the hardest part. I had to be patient. It took time for him to come around, and there were moments when I thought it wasn’t going to work. But I stuck with it, and eventually, he started to open up to me again.
Phase 8: Getting Him Back
Finally, after all that, we started spending more time together. We went on dates, talked more, and slowly but surely, we rebuilt our connection. It wasn’t easy, but it was worth it. We’re back together now, and things are better than ever.
So, if you’re trying to get your Gemini man back, just remember these things: give him space, work on yourself, show him you’re fun, keep things light, be a good listener, show him you’ve changed, and most importantly, be patient. It might take some time, but if you really care about him, it’s worth the effort. Good luck!
