Okay, so I’ve been dating this Virgo guy, super sweet, a bit intense, but in a good way, you know? I really wanted to dig deeper into what makes these guys tick, so I did a little experiment. Here’s how it went down.
Phase 1: The Deep Dive
First, I hit up the internet. I read tons of articles, forums, everything I could find about Virgo men and their preferences. I was jotting down notes like crazy. It seemed like a few things kept popping up:
- Intelligence: They like smart women, someone they can have real conversations with.
- Organization: Chaos is apparently a big turn-off.
- Independence: They admire someone who has their own life and passions.
- Kindness and sincerity: Phonies need not apply.
- Subtlety over Flashiness: Think classy, not trashy.
Sounds straightforward enough, right? Well, time to put it to the test.
Phase 2: Operation Virgo-fy My Life (Slightly)
I’m not about to completely change who I am, but I figured I could tweak a few things, see if it made a difference. Here’s my action plan:
- Book Club Boost: I’ve always loved reading, but I made a point of mentioning a couple of interesting articles I’d read lately, sparking up some deeper conversation.
- The “Accidental” Tidy-Up: When he came over, I made sure my place was extra tidy. Not sterile, just, you know, organized. Threw away some obvious clutter.
- Project Passion: I’m working on a side project, and instead of downplaying it, I talked about it with genuine enthusiasm.
- Honesty Hour: I practiced being extra mindful of being genuine and sincere in our interactions. No sugar-coating, just real talk.
- Dress Down, but Dress Up?:I go for comfy clothes mostly. I pick out some outfits that were still ‘me’, but a little more polished. Simple, classic stuff.
Phase 3: Observation and (Mild) Panic
So, I started implementing these little changes. The conversations definitely flowed better when I brought up those articles. We talked about all kinds of things, and he seemed genuinely engaged. Major win!
The tidy apartment? He didn’t say anything directly, but I noticed he seemed more relaxed, less fidgety. Could be a coincidence, but I’m taking it as a positive sign.
Sharing my passion project seemed to really light him up. He asked a ton of questions, offered suggestions, and even seemed impressed. Score!
The subtle style change? The other day, he mentioned that I had a very classy *!
The honesty thing… well, that’s just good for any relationship, right? It felt good to be upfront and real, and he seemed to appreciate it. It opened up a new level of conversation.
Phase 4: The Verdict (So Far)
Okay, so it’s not like he suddenly turned into a different person, but I definitely noticed a positive shift. He seemed more attentive, more interested, and just generally more… connected.
The big takeaway for me? It’s not about pretending to be someone you’re not. It’s about highlighting the qualities that Virgo men appreciate, and those qualities are actually pretty awesome in any relationship: being genuine, having your own thing going on, and showing you care about yourself and the world around you. I am gonna keep doing what I am doing. Will let you guys know any updates!
